Peer pressure can only get you so far before you have to start thinking on your own.

But there are a few things that you should most certainly do if your friends are doing them - forget jumping off a bridge, we're thinking more along the lines of a saucy night on the town with Brazilian twins (sans friends).

We're also thinking along the lines of a premium vacation at Sandy Lane, the premier luxury resort set in Barbados' St. James' district.  Unlike some faux-tels on the island, your Sandy Lane experience begins the moment you settle into the backseat of your luxury, chauffeured ride from the airport.  You'll notice the neo-classical architecture, styled with Palladian effect, as you arrive and head to your room.  And if the Italian marble floors, in-room Neos entertainment system, and heated mirrors weren't enough, get familiar with your private bar, before heading to your private verandah to enjoy some private time (seeing a pattern yet?).

Guest services operate with an almost indecent haste; and if you feel like you're being treated like royalty, chances are you've been mistaken for your neighbour who, incidentally, might happen to be the Prince of Monaco (it could happen, we're just saying...).  Sandy Lane boasts an impressive, and consistent, clientele of celebs, members of various royal families and several of the richest men in the world.  Hey, if it's good enough for them...

You can expect enough familiar activities, and more than enough exotic and unfamiliar, er, sensations to keep you busy for a minute.  Think:  beach, spa and private tennis lessons (the resort uses the best coach in Barbados).  Most importantly, think:  luxury.  We feel the need to mention that there are five (5) other bars located on the property - any (or all) of which you can sample before heading to L'Acajou for dinner.  Or, before heading to the pool with the twins.  Yes, you brought them along and we love you for it.

What?  All the cool kids are doing it...

Sandy Lane | St. James, Barbados | 246-444-2000 | www.sandylane.com